Of absent friend

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No. It is not about death of a friend. More like, losing yourself and forgetting who you are.

At work, I realize I have become more of a slave master-driver.

I have become more demanding. I push. I become less tolerant.

I think, the job I am having now, has made me forget.

I must do things differently. I must be their guide and a supporter. To be a guide, I must not be afraid to be guided. To be a supporter, I must not be afraid to be supported.

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